The day after Thanksgiving, when many of us were feeling fat and happy (and maybe tired from overspending at the mall), I was driving from house to house doing my pet runs.  I was listening to the Tavis Smiley show on NPR.  He had two guests that night—one who worked with America’s Second Harvest, the nation’s largest food pantry for the needy, and the other a researcher at the Heritage Foundation, a Conservative policy think tank.  The Second Harvest affiliate was talking about the shocking number of Americans who are hungry—approximately 13% of households in North Carolina in 2004 (see their website at http://www.secondharvest.org/).  The main point of her discussion was a new report out by the government about poverty and food insecurity in the U.S.   A recent report produced by the Second Harvest gives some of the same figures Smiley’s guest referred to. Called the Almanac of Hunger and Poverty, it focuses on poverty rates in each state, as well looks at poverty and food insecurity in particular groups, such as children and the elderly.  An estimated 35 million Americans are living in situations where they do not know where their next meal will come from.

 If you’re alarmed, or even motivated to help these folks, don’t be—at least that’s what Robert Rector, the Heritage researcher, says. He is so frustrated with concerned folks “crying wolf” about food insecurity that he wrote an article about it:

 Today’s Special: Another “Hunger Crisis”By Robert Rector

It’s Thanksgiving, and political activists are serving up a familiar dish: cries of alarm about a “hunger crisis” in America. The Chicago-based group America’s Second Harvest, for example, says millions of American children suffer from hunger. The Food Research and Action Center claims that 29 percent of all U.S. children — nearly one out of every three — is hungry or “at risk” of hunger.But such startling claims are refuted by the federal government’s own data. Surveys conducted by the Department of Health and Human Services show that 96 percent of American families report that they have “enough food to eat.” About 3 percent say they “sometimes” don’t have enough food. Only one half of 1 percent say they “often” don’t have enough food.These data also reveal an ironic fact: Nearly half of the people who claim they lack food are overweight. In fact, obesity is most common among the tiny group claiming they “often” lack food.Are one-third of U.S. children hungry? In reality, American children, both rich and poor, are remarkably well nourished. The average amount of protein, vitamins and minerals consumed by poor children is virtually identical with what middle-class children consume. In most cases, it greatly exceeds recommended norms. For example, poor children, on average, take in more than 200 percent of the “recommended daily allowance” of protein, a relatively expensive nutrient.Health problems relating to the under-consumption of food are scarce among both poor and middle-class children. Thinness (low weight for height) and stunting (low height for age) are virtually non-existent among both groups. In fact, poor American children are simply giants by international or historic standards. By the time poor boys reach age 18, they are, on average, one inch taller and 10 pounds heavier than a middle-class boy of the same age in the late 1950s.Poor Americans do face health problems related to diet, but these mainly stem from an over-consumption of food, not food scarcity. In a nation plagued by excess calories, the poor are most likely to be overweight. Nearly half of poor adult women are overweight, compared to a third of non-poor women.Medical experts have expressed concern over the growth of obesity among American children. Unfortunately, obesity is most common among poor children. A recent medical study of low-income black and Hispanic students in Central Harlem found that 25 percent were “obese,” and more than half of that group was “super-obese.“Recently, the government’s principal food program for children (Women, Infants and Children) issued a study claiming that it wasn’t responsible for the alarming growth of obesity among poor children. Whenever you have the government’s major feeding program denying responsibility for obesity among the poor, it seems reasonable to conclude that activist claims of a widespread “hunger crisis” are just a bit overblown.Finally, many believe that lack of money forces poor people to eat low-quality diets deficient in nutrients and high in fat. But government survey data show that nutrient richness (the amount of vitamins, minerals and protein per calorie of food) is the same for poor and middle- class Americans. And the diets of poor people, on average, are no higher in fat than the diets of the middle class.Some poor people, particularly in the inner city, do have diets that are very high in fat. But this problem can be blamed on the heavy consumption of take-out “fast food.” A diet laden with “Big Macs” and “Super-Size Fries” isn’t healthy, but it’s hardly evidence of a food shortage or a lack of money to buy food.I’m not suggesting that periodic hunger doesn’t occur in America. But far from being a crisis, hunger is a limited problem, and one that usually doesn’t last very long. For example, U.S. Department of Agriculture surveys show that, in the last month, about one American child in 200 missed one or more meals due to the family’s lack of money for food. This is a cause for concern, of course, but it is far short of a national epidemic.More importantly, when temporary hunger does occur, it is often linked to behavioral problems that are far more troubling than simple food shortages. In the inner city, for example, up to 80 percent of children are born outside of marriage. Drugs and crime are rampant. Activist groups may think they’re doing poor Americans a favor, but bogus claims of a “hunger crisis” only distract attention from these all-too-real problems.

A comment made by  Rector on the Tavis Smiley show really sums up his article best.  I can’t quote verbatim, but I do remember the essence of what he said.  He told Smiley and his other guest that perhaps the real problem is that people in poverty don’t know how to spread meals out evenly.  He suggested that instead of eating a whole lot at the beginning of the month, they spread their meals out over the course of the entire month. In other words, they should ration their food.  Is this man for real? When has he skipped a meal in order to ensure his kids would eat? When did he last feel the pain of hunger yet was unable to do anything about it? I wonder when he last rationed his food?  Maybe he did it over Thanksgiving, ensuring that instead of one nice, large meal, he’d have a whole month of turkey leftovers.  It’s a good thing this privileged white man is thin, otherwise I’d point out that maybe he, too, doesn’t know how to spread out his meals properly.Instead of accusing the poor of ineffective rationing skills, we ought to ask ourselves why the idea of rationing is even necessary in what some would think is the best country in the world.  To Rector’s credit, he did say that food stamps should cover nutritious foods instead of the junk and soda they typically pay for now.  And he’s right.  But that’s just a start.  We need to help people find jobs that will bring them out of poverty, and most Americans, whether secure in food or not, need to learn how to eat better.  But that won’t happen as long as junky, fast food and poor quality items at the store are what so many can afford.  I think the poor have it difficult enough as it is—we need not blame them for their hunger pains as well.   

For years, my whole life really, I lived in a private prison of self-judgment.  I thought that I was cold and heartless.  My actions did not reflect this belief, for the most part at least.  But inwardly, I struggled with my lack of attachment to others that I know most people feel.  When I saw a child, or heard a sad story, I would make the appropriate expressions outwardly, but internally I felt little or nothing at all.  This is still the case today.  The exceptions were with animals and in the early stages of every romantic relationship I’ve been in.  In fact, when it came to romance, I had a near obsession with the person I was with—and that obsession engulfed my emotional and physical being with a kind of stranglehold.  But eventually, that would subside, and I’d feel the way about that person that I felt for other people.  Not a kind of complacency, but a lack of emotional attachment that one would expect a reasonable person to have.  And so I came to believe that I was incapable of really loving; that in fact, I did not know or understand love.  I still think this is the case—at least when comparing love to the rules of neurotypicals.  But, I am not a neurotypical—I am mildly autistic.  Regardless of where one falls on the autism spectrum—severe or mild, I think this is the case.  Love is a difficult concept for us.  But then I remembered this: “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, and it is not proud.  Love is not rude, is not selfish, and does not get upset with others.  Love does not count up wrongs that have been done.  Love is not happy with evil but is happy with the truth.  Love patiently accepts all things.  It always trusts, always hopes, and always remains strong… Love never ends.” (1^st Corinthians 13:4-8) So whether you love in the emotional, attached way that is expected, or whether you love through the cocoon of autism, the best way to love is God’s way.  It’s simple, straightforward, and honest.  It lacks fanfare.  And it involves sacrifice.  One need not be warm and fuzzy to love this way.

Triad Stage that is!  Hillel will be attending “A Beautiful Star” tonight at 7:30PM at Triad stage.  We do not have any more tickets, so if you’d like to go please check online or call Triad Stage. 

 Please note that we won’t be having regular worship since we will be at the play.

We’re having dinner at Boba House before – 5:30PM – 7PM

Hillel will be singing Christmas carols in a Habitat neighborhood.  Join us at 8:00PM  to move throughout a neighborhood and sing!  Contact us for meeting location.

Meet at April & Alan’s house at 7PM to practice our Christmas carols.  We’ll be caroling on Friday December 14th at 8:00PM.  Hope you can join us for both!